keith and i were able to get away this past weekend and attend a marriage conference.
it was so good to 1) be with keith
2) reconnect with keith
and 3) actually get to finish sentences and conversations with keith, without being interrupted by the littles.
this is the second time we've attended a
weekend to remember, and it's amazing how one weekend can impact you so much.
if you haven't ever been to one, i highly recommend checking out their schedule and signing up today!
even if your marriage is smooth sailing, it's always good to learn more, about how you can be a better spouse.
these past few months have been so hard on us...ever since the morning i woke up and realized i was prego, cause i was puking my guts up, our life has been turned upside down.
keith has taken on the responsibility of father and mother...taking care of the kids...cleaning up the house...cooking ALL the meals...grocery shopping...going to work everyday...you name it, he was doing it.
so, yah, needless to say...it's been rough.
this weekend was exactly what we needed to get back on track.
and to top things off, i was feeling good!
i'm back to myself again...able to take on my load of the responsibilities, and it feels so good.
there were so many things i learned this weekend, but i think the few things that have stuck out are these:
1) we must choose to receive our spouse as God's perfect gift to us...even when they don't seem so perfect.
2) the goal of marriage is not to be conflict-free but to handle conflict correctly when it occurs.
3) we cannot let the ways of this world, dictate how a marriage should be...we need to stand up for marriage and choose to fight for it...even in the hard times.
at the end of the conference, they had everybody stand up and face their spouse...and then we had a vow-renewal.
it was so powerful...and so much more meaningful now, then it was when we first did it, 6 years ago.
you actually understand the words "for better or for worse" now, and marriage really means that.
so, this weekend was good...and i know how easily we can fall back into the traps we were in before, but we are choosing to work to make our marriage the way God intended for it to be.
we choose to stick it out.
we choose to love, even when we don't feel it.
we choose to be all that we can be as a husband and wife, for our children.
we choose to model a godly marriage for our littles.
it's not going to be easy...but it will be oh so worth it.